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In the old days, no one would ever contemplate that women in general are cheaters. That is not the case now. Statistics show that women are involved in cheating on their partners at the same rate as men. In addition, they are the ones to initiate a breakup or a divorce in approximately 70% of cases.

Why Would a Woman Cheat? Let's discuss a few of the many reasons this might happen.

The number one reason a woman would cheat on her partner is because she is not getting the attention she craves and needs on a personal level.

She may feel she is being taken for granted, and feels like "household help". She may be overwhelmed with taking care of all the details that must be attended to running a household. She and her husband are no longer talking about things on a personal, one-to-one basis.

Instead, it is almost like she and her mate are running a business. They meet regularly to discuss things like who will cook dinner tonight, or how did little Billy do on his science test, or "can you drop off my dry cleaning tomorrow?" In other words, there is no real communication going on anymore, the kind where she feels like she is really connecting to you, that you truly understand her hopes and dreams. Unfortunately, the woman may look outside her marriage or relationship to get the kind of connection and intimacy she longs for. Women require an emotional satisfaction that they experience when they have real communication and intimacy with their significant other.

Another big reason why a woman would cheat is because she and her mate are not sharing activities in common as much as they once did.

Over time, it just seems that she would rather be pursuing her own interests, versus trying to get interested in yours. But this works both ways. You may also rather be out drinking beer and watching the game with your buddies at a local bar, than hanging out with your wife and taking a self-improvement class, for example.

In and of itself, having different hobbies and interests might not be a problem. But as time goes on, and the activity or hobby is pursued more often, more connections are made and the possibility increases that the woman may become attracted to the guy in her class that spends time actually talking and listening to her. It goes back to the emotional attention factor again.

It may be time for you to take a good, hard look at your marriage, especially if you're feeling disconnected from your wife or just as importantly, if your wife is feeling disconnected from you. Are you paying her enough personal attention, or are you relating to her like she is staff? Spend some time now to improve the communication between you, and you just might be able to head off problems at the pass.

In future articles, we will continue to discuss a few more reasons why women cheat.

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